Divorce Avoidance; Part 1 Insider Secrets
Your divorce avoidance strategy needs to be based on the G.A.L System. Gratitude, Attitude, and Latitude are three essential keys. What follows is a system I have used for 26 years since my darling wife and I were divorced and remarried to one another.
You may be surprised to hear that our 26 years have not been spent in a series of strife free mountain top experiences. However what has ensured further divorce avoidance is our commitment to the G.A.L System.
Gratitude daily takes center stage in our relationship as I regularly tell my wife throughout each day that I am filled with gratitude to be her life partner.
And I am filled with gratitude to God for allowing us a second chance in giving us the opportunity to get remarried once we had divorced.
Attitude features strongly in our daily walk as we both have strong personalities. We now see ourselves as complimenting one another as we often agree to disagree. The key here has been a decision on both our parts to “be wrong when we thought we were right”.
What’s more important to both of us than being right is staying in agreement as we know that for us to both get the best out of married life we need to stay unified.
Latitude takes the form of us giving one another plenty of personal space to have quiet times throughout the day for individual interests. We respect one another’s alone times. That enables us to enjoy even more the times when we get back together over a cup of coffee to share quiet time experiences.
You too can enjoy the benefits of a lifetime of divorce avoidance by practising the G.A.L. System.
You will be blessed with a lasting loving relationship.
Copyright 2006 Kenneth Little
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The Wedding Dress Revealed
Fashion Trends and Popular Styles and Colors
The Wedding Dress - How did it all begin?
Did you ever wonder how the tradition of wearing a wedding dress came about? Wedding dresses have been worn by brides young and old alike for centuries. In modern times almost anything passes for a wedding dress however, in times of old, traditional wedding dresses were flowing gowns usually white in color.
White is usually accepted as the “traditional” color of gowns, and many designer wedding gowns are still fashioned in this color, representing the “purity” and “innocence” of the bride to be. Many women opt for other colors, including blue, pink, cream, yellow and more.
Wedding dresses have changed with time much as everything in the world has. In times of old most women selected a gown based on her financial status. Women who were at an economic disadvantage usually did not have the luxury of selecting an extraordinary gown that would be worn only once. Rather, most selected something more “plain” that could be worn for church services and other occasions after their blessed day.
Wedding gowns of varying styles and colors were popular among the elite, and by and large represented the unique style and personality of the bride to be, as well as modern trends at the time.
Popular Colors
An old poem states about the color of a wedding dress that “Married in white, you will have chosen all right.” This is not to say that all brides historically have chosen white for their wedding gown. In fact, many brides chose colors including blue, pearl and even black. Many brides believed that if they wore blue their husbands would remain true to them (also a famous line in the wedding poem). Pink was even a popular wedding gown color for a time, though its darker variant, red was often considered taboo because it was associated with “scarlet women”.
Many women who did not have a large budget to spend on a wedding dress in times of old opted for fashions that could be worn any day, rather than solely on their wedding day. For their wedding day, they would dress up their gown with accessories and flowers, even bows that could be removed after the festivities.
Wedding Gown Fashion
In the United States for a short spell the color white fell out of favor, but around the time of the Industrial Revolution, when the department store made it possible for a bride with any budget to purchase the gown of her dreams, white once again became the fashion. The style worn by women has changed through time.
Wedding dresses fashioned during the Roaring twenties were very different from those that came about in the thirties. In the twenties, women sought out gowns that de-emphasized their shape, in line with the style of the flappers that was trendy at the time.
During the 30’s most women emphasized their shape and wore gowns that highlighted their waists and bosoms. Perhaps the most interesting period of time for the wedding gown was during the 1980s, when big puffy sleeves and extravagant skirts were worn by a majority of women. These gowns, while well suited for trim and petite women, often were not the most flattering choice for the average size woman. Despite this, gowns did not trim down again until the mid to late 1990s.
Wedding Gown Fashion Today
As mentioned at the start, almost anything passes for a wedding dress today. More and more women are buying a wedding dress online, because of the wide variety and selection of unique and custom made gowns available.
Informal wedding dresses, designer wedding dresses and even discount wedding dresses can all be found online thanks to modern technology. More popular than even designer wedding dresses are discount bridal gowns online. Most brides to be can purchase extravagant looking, custom made gowns for a fraction of the cost they would find them in a department store.
Another benefit of buying a wedding dress online is convenience. With so many things to plan for a wedding (location, cake, reception, flowers, invitations, rehearsal dinner etc.etc) most women appreciate having a handy resource for buying their wedding dress. Most women also find a wider selection of sizes and custom features available when they shop online vs. when they shop in a traditional store.
Trends
Trends have changed when it comes to modern wedding attire. No longer do all brides seek out a traditional white gown for their special occasion. In fact, there is a huge selection of vintage and informal wedding dresses available, many of which don’t even look like official wedding gowns.
Most dresses today focus on the unique personality of the bride rather than socially accepted “norms” when it comes to buying a wedding dress. In general many brides are looking for wedding gowns that are narrower than they have been in times of old, and those that offer clean silhouettes. These types of dresses usually lengthen the body and provide a slimming effect. Some more popular trends include the following:
- A-line dresses that are long and slimming
- Sheaths with trains built into the silhouette, so that it trails behind the bride
- Bias-cut wedding gowns that follow the natural curves of the body, ending in a small flare at the bottom
- Raised waistline ball-gown styles
- Square necklines that provide a fresh open look
- Off the shoulder dresses providing a full neckline
- Sleeveless or cap sleeve gowns which are especially popular for summer brides
- Empire waists which elongate the figure and shift the focus upward
Trends are also apparent with regard to fabrics. Satin and silk gowns have long been popular, though sheer fabrics are also becoming more trendy, including chiffon and organzas. Embroidery is also replacing lace for many modern gowns, and some brides are opting to accent their dresses with pearls and other quality beads.
No matter what style gown you choose, the most important thing is that you select one that makes you look good, feel good and happy on the most important day of your life. You’re sure to find a superb selection when shopping online.
About The Author:
Antigone Arthur is a successful freelance writer with 10 years of professional experience providing consumers with informative articles on such topics as wedding gowns and dresses, wedding dress shopping, and designer wedding dresses.
Valentine Screensavers - Is Love Only For A Day In The Year?
Valentine’s day comes once in a year. But that does not mean that lovers stop loving each other for the rest of the year. They continue loving each other with the same intensity. The only difference is that on Valentines Day the love is expressed in different ways and lover overflows more.
Valentine screensavers are designed to express this romantic love. All these screensavers have lovely text, and images. Every good valentine Screensaver can arouse passion in any one. That is the effect of visuals, text and music. If you wish to keep the passion of love at its peak during all the times, download few Valentines Screensavers on your desktop and watch them all through the year. For a lover, everyday is the Valentines Day.
a lover wants to feel the passion at all the times. A lover wants to feel the heart beating faster at the thought of his beloved at all the times. A lover wants to be with his/her darling at all the times. Love gives life to one who is in love. That is why I say, download few Valentine Screensavers on your desktop and watch them whenever you want to feel passionate.
Take care to download Valentine Screensavers from a good website so that you avoid any attachments of adware and spyware. Search for free downloads. Keep the selection to lower file sizes. Download screensavers with music and lovely text. The download should be simple and installation easy. Don’t experiment with many websites. Once you know that a site is offering good free content, keep confined to that. Wish you a great love life.
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